I rarely write about family. Their lives are private, and they get to choose what is shared—except for today! My son, Adam, is a senior and turned 18 on Valentine’s Day. Yes, for nearly two decades, he has taken the attention off me on this made-up holiday!

In some ways, the last 18 years have flown by. On the other hand, I don’t remember a time when he wasn’t part of our story. It has been one of the great honors of our lives to shepherd him into adulthood. But, my goodness, is it both lovely and hard! We are proud and excited for him, but no one prepares you for this season.

As I look back and reflect on Adam’s journey, here is what I have learned watching him become a man.

1. Jesus Was a Gatherer of People—So Is Adam. It Is Important.

Jesus built community, drawing people in with love, grace, and truth. Adam has this same gift. He is the guy who makes sure no one is left out, who brings people together, and who values friendships deeply. He is loyal. Whether through sports, church, or just hanging out, Adam creates spaces where people feel welcomed. That’s a skill, but more importantly, it’s a calling. The world needs more gatherers.

2. He Can Do Hard Things.

Being a teenager in the digital age is messy—navigating social media, constant comparison, and the pressure to always be “on.” But Adam has stepped through this minefield with wisdom, sometimes stumbling but always getting back up. On top of that, he has tackled two of the most demanding challenges: competitive swimming and homeschooling.

Swimming has tested his discipline and mental toughness—long days, grueling practices, and the relentless pursuit of improvement. He has pushed through, proving that resilience is built through perseverance. At the same time, homeschooling has required him to take ownership of his education, learning self-motivation, time management, and responsibility in ways many never do before college. Balancing academics, athletics, and faith, he has embraced challenges that have shaped his character, showing me that grit and grace can coexist.

Adam has proven, time and again, that he can do hard things—and come out stronger every time.

3. And Maybe the Hardest—He Is Ready.

This fall, Adam will launch into the next season of life at Liberty University in Lynchburg, VA. We have contributed some (mostly his mom!), but Jesus has done amazing work in him. He is grounded in his faith, strong in his convictions, and eager to step into his future. That’s what we raise them for, right? To be ready. But the truth is, knowing he is ready doesn’t make it easier to let go.

I am grateful for the young man he has become. He is compassionate, strong, and funny. He has been a blessing to our family, and I know he will bless others in the years to come.

So, Liberty—get ready. You are about to receive someone who will bring people together, work through challenges, and walk confidently into his calling.

And as for me? I’ll be cheering from a distance, proud beyond words, and always here if he needs to be gathered home.